科比在NBA多年之后终于明白要学会放手（点击进入段旭博客）
有关上面的问题，最近科比给了一个答案，非常漂亮的答案，令人深思的答案。
说真的，所有热爱篮球并且能读懂英文的朋友，都应该去读一读雅虎体育作者 Adrian Wojnarowski 的这篇文章（有兴趣的朋友请点这里）。不懂英文也没关系，这两天各大网站的NBA版块应该都有该文的中文编译版本，我们报纸也会做相关内容，基本上，您只要搜索“科比 迈克尔·杰克逊”字样，就能找到相关文字。但我想说的是，所谓科比跟迈克尔·杰克逊的渊源，只是 Adrian Wojnarowski 这篇文章的一个噱头，真正实质性的内容，还是来自科比本人的领悟。你不必喜欢科比，就像我，但只要你喜欢篮球，喜欢NBA，至少应该知晓科比的答案。
我无比赞赏的，就是下面这段话——
科比说："How to truly make players better, what that really means. It's not just passing to your guys and getting them shots. It's not getting this or that many players into double figures. That's bull[expletive]. That's not how you win championships. You've got to change the culture of your team -- that's how you truly make guys better. In a way, you have to help them to get the same DNA that you have, the same focus you have, maybe even close to the same drive. That's how you make guys better.
"I've never understood this stuff, where a star player sits out and a team goes into the tank. Well, they need him because he makes them better. Well, if he's making them better, they should be able to survive without him. That's how you lead your guys. You've got to be able to make guys suffice on their own, without you. If you're there all the time and they take you away, they shouldn't need a respirator.
"Once I understood all that, I looked at things completely different. I took my hands off. I didn't try to control them. I let them make decisions, make their own [expletive]-ups and I was there to try and help them through it."
翻译成中文，大致是这样——
“怎样才是真正‘让其他人变得更好’？这句话的真正含义是什么？不是你传球给自己的队友，让他们投篮，就让他们变得更好了。也不是你让多少多少人得分达到了两位数。那些都是狗屎，都不是你拿冠军要做的。你应该改变你们球队的文化，这才是真正让其他人变得更好。你必须用某种方式，帮助他们获得跟你一样的DNA，跟你一样的专注，甚至跟你一样的动力，这才是让其他人变得更好的方式。
“我从来不理解这样的状况：当一个明星球员休战时，他的球队就打得很烂，说什么他们需要他，因为他能让他们变得更好。如果他真的让他们变得更好，他们就应该有能力在没有他的情况下存活着，这才是你真正领导着你的队友。你必须要让你的队友们，就算没有你，靠他们自己也能好好的。如果你一直都在，突然他们离开了你，他们不应该无法呼吸。
“当我明白了所有这些，我看待事情的角度就完全不同了。我放开手，我不要试图去控制他们，我让他们自己做决定，让他们自己想办法，我在那儿，只是努力帮助他们度过这一切。”
读完这些，再回过头去细细品尝琢磨个一两遍，不管你喜不喜欢科比，都应该会发自内心地感叹：科比悟了。
事实上，不仅仅是科比本人悟了，他这一番话，还可以启发很多很多没有领悟到这一层的人——启发别的篮球明星，也启发你我。
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